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[20rules]

ok here's the situation. The guy I know b/c he works at a local restaurant I frequent has now made two comments about me wearing shorts. He wasn't crass about it. I always catch him looking at me (esp. my legs). He also makes sure he comes over to my table and chats. Sooooooo, should I leave him my number? I'm guessing he's interested.

[ladiesandgentlemen]

To answer the question you posed in your thread title, a lot of us men (read most of us men) are immature cavemen and don't have the sophistication of communication skills that involve vulnerability.

And to address your leading post, just get down to brass tacks and admit that you're interested in him... or at least hoping that he likes your legs.

In any case, ask him if he would like you to give him your number in a friendly way. It puts the ball in his court, giving him the perfect opportunity to ask you out.

If he doesn't "take the hint", he is either not interested in going out with you, or too dense to bother with.

Kills two birds with one stone.

[ducksfan13]

because its not that easy... i wish it was

[20rules]

oh yeah baby, I'm very interested in him. I could leave it on a card.

[ducksfan13]

oh yeah baby, I'm very interested in him.

why dont you just ask him then?

[20rules]

why dont you just ask him then?

I get all shy and nervous!

[Always Mighty]

To answer the question you posed in your thread title, a lot of us men (read most of us men) are immature cavemen and don't have the sophistication of communication skills that involve vulnerability.

Oh, I don't think it's most, I'm pretty sure that it's all of us.

[20rules]

Oh, I don't think it's most, I'm pretty sure that it's all of us.

rofl! yeah

[ducksfan13]

I get all shy and nervous!

oh come on, its different for a girl

[20rules]

oh come on, its different for a girl

No, it's not! All kinds of thoughts race through my head...is he actually interested, or just likes to gawk at mey legs, what if he's a player, I don't need to go through that crappola again. agghhhh

[ducksfan13]

No, it's not!

sure it is... you dont know what its like to be a guy in that situation... i'll tell you im just awful at that kind of thing

[20rules]

sure it is... you dont know what its like to be a guy in that situation... i'll tell you im just awful at that kind of thing

You're still young though..yep I looked at your age, so no big deal.

I've asked guys out before. It's just as bad for a female...at least me...lol

[ducksfan13]

You're still young though..yep I looked at your age, so no big deal.

I've asked guys out before. It's just as bad for a female...at least me...lol

i dont feel that young ... but ill take your word for it

[20rules]

i dont feel that young ... but ill take your word for it

I'm going to be 37 this month so 18 is a puppy in my eyes.

[Dark Knight]

Huh?

[20rules]

Huh?

LMAO

[ducksfan13]

I'm going to be 37 this month so 18 is a puppy in my eyes.

wow your twice as old as me... i know that sounded mean but it was just an observation

[20rules]

wow your twice as old as me... i know that sounded mean but it was just an observation

LOL Naw it's not mean. I get that all the time at work when the students ask me how old I am.

[ladiesandgentlemen]

Oh, I don't think it's most, I'm pretty sure that it's all of us.

Hey, as a card-carrying caveman myself, I do know that nice legs are a good source of... well, you know.

It's a good start, anyway,

[20rules]

Hey, as a card-carrying caveman myself, I do know that nice legs are a good source of... well, you know.

It's a good start, anyway,

lol We'll I'm 5 ft 8 inches so yeah very leggy.

Speaking of cavemen I always picture AO w/a club..lol He looks like a cavedweller.

[ladiesandgentlemen]

I have to admit another strong caveman connection that I display, and that is I have had many an attraction to waitresses. And it is no coincidence that they are women who bring me food.

Do I sense a cavewoman element here?

[20rules]

I have to admit another strong caveman connection that I display, and that is I have had many an attraction to waitresses. And it is no coincidence that they are women who bring me food.

Do I sense a cavewoman element here?

He's the BOSS, not a waiter, but he does sometimes bring me my food..so yeah .....I think I'll change my name to Pebbles.

[OrangeDucky]

Males are just as insecure as females yet they show it differently. It's not a matter of males being ignorant--THAT IS A POOR EXCUSE, MIND YE! Both share somewhat the same insecurities, worries, fear of rejection, all that good stuff that makes one lose sleep at night.

Well, I really shouldn't be trying to give advice on this subject seeing as thus far in my life I have only chosen the worst and only the worst have chosen me, haha. I really ought to be seeking advice instead.

[20rules]

Males are just as insecure as females yet they show it differently. It's not a matter of males being ignorant--THAT IS A POOR EXCUSE, MIND YE! Both share somewhat the same insecurities, worries, fear of rejection, all that good stuff that makes one lose sleep at night.

Well, I really shouldn't be trying to give advice on this subject seeing as thus far in my life I have only chosen the worst and only the worst have chosen me, haha. I really ought to be seeking advice instead.

ahhhh I'm sorry you're a jerk magnet. I was a jerk magnet when I was younger too.

[OrangeDucky]

ahhhh I'm sorry you're a jerk magnet. I was a jerk magnet when I was younger too.

What makes one a jerk/liar/pedophile magnet??? I really need to know because it is getting on my nerves, haha.